They Went on a Holiday Cruise and Left Me With a Man They Called a “Problem”

I know now, in a way I could not have articulated before those four strange days, is that the great failure of control is not that it doesn’t work. Sometimes it works very well. The failure is in what it costs: the dignity of the person being controlled, and the honesty of the relationship between you.

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