Midway Through My Vasectomy, the Surgeon Said One Sentence That Told Me Something Was Very Wrong. – The Archivist

humiliation at the wedding, though that had been satisfying in the moment.

Not the eviction notice or the criminal charges or the social consequences they’d faced.

The best revenge was this: living well. Living honestly. Living as myself, finally, without apology or explanation.

Because at the end of the day, the opposite of love isn’t hate.

It’s indifference.continue reading …