At Christmas dinner, my daughter-in-law stood up and declared, “I control this family now. Your cards are shut off.”

“Because if you had asked, I would have told you.”

His eyes lifted. “Told me what?”

I reached into my handbag again and took out a photograph. It was old, creased at the corners, taken in 1998 outside a courthouse in Hartford. Ethan was eighteen in the picture, thin and angry, standing beside me in a borrowed suit.

I placed it on the coffee table.

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